Dog separation anxiety is a real problem, especially among dogs who have been rescued from shelters or those who were purchased from pet stores. Dogs can exhibit annoying and disturbing behavior, from being destructive while you’re gone to whining, barking, licking, chewing and even self-mutilation. Dog owners with this problem need tried and true dog separation anxiety solutions.

There are different ways to treat separation anxiety, but it will require patience and understanding. Your dog is basically sick, so any scolding of his behavior is similar to punishing a child for being sick. Start by ignoring your dog’s demands for attention, such as his jumping up on you or licking you when you get home. If you baby or pet him, it reinforces the idea that there’s a reason he needs to be comforted. Instead, allow him to calm down first and then give him attention.

You’ll notice that your dog begins to get scared or nervous when you prepare to leave – either by putting your shoes on, grabbing your keys or purse, etc. Start your routine you commonly do as you get ready to leave the house. Go to the door, and then stand there for a few minutes. Remove your shoes, place your purse or keys down, etc. and then remain in the house. Doing this several times will help your dog get over the anxiety these actions cause.

After your dog has stopped exhibiting nervous behavior at your ‘leaving’ routine, actually go outside for five to ten minutes and then return inside. Remember to ignore the jumping and attention your dog gives you when you come back in. Continue this until he’s okay with you leaving for a short period of time. Slowly increase the amount of time you’re gone. As you remain patient with your dog and slowly use these dog separation anxiety solutions to help your dog, he will become more well-adjusted and fine with you leaving. Owners should also speak to their vets about the separation anxiety and supplemental help to ensure that their dogs are being treated effectively.